I can not give you a day or an hour, (I wish I could) but I promise you that real healing from your loss does come. It never comes as quickly as we would like, but it does come. Real healing is found in the moment when you realize your tears come from joyful memories and not only painful absence. Real healing shows up in a quick smile for a friend. Real healing comes when we notice beauty and laughter again for what seems like the first time. Real healing does come. May God grant you peace on your journey.